Six Ways to Make People Like You.If you want people to like you........
Rule 1: Become genuinely interested in other people
1)"Do this and you will be welcome anywhere"
2)"You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you."
3)"Ask questions to other people, questions that they would enjoy answering."
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Rule 2: Smile
1)"Actions speak louder than words,and a smile says, "I like you.You make me happy. I am glad to see you."
2)"You don't feel like smiling? Then force yourself to smile."
3)"It creates happiness in the home, fosters good will in a business, and is the countersign (witness or indication) of friends."
Quote:"A warm smile is the universe language of kindness." William Arthur Ward
Reflection: I think smiling is a good thing because you get to show how happy you are and show others that nothing can bring you down. Smiling is a better facial expression than being sad. Always smile bring light into your life don't be sad. Smiling will get you through the bad times even if its hard a smile can help even if you think it won't.
Rule 3: Remember names
1)"A man's name is to him the sweetest and most important sound in any language.'
2)"If you don't remember names,you are heading for trouble."
Quote:"Forgive your enemies, but never forget their name." John F. Kennedy
Reflection: In my opinion remembering names is always a good thing because it can be important to people. People have their name to have value not just a name a parent gave it to them it may have a sentimental thing,but we may not know that unless remember others name for return of them remembering ours. Names are categorized for us to know others and to know why it is important for us and the meaning or history of the name.
How to remember people names:
Rule 3: Remember names1)"A man's name is to him the sweetest and most important sound in any language.'
2)"If you don't remember names,you are heading for trouble."
Quote:"Forgive your enemies, but never forget their name." John F. Kennedy
Reflection: In my opinion remembering names is always a good thing because it can be important to people. People have their name to have value not just a name a parent gave it to them it may have a sentimental thing,but we may not know that unless remember others name for return of them remembering ours. Names are categorized for us to know others and to know why it is important for us and the meaning or history of the name.
How to remember people names:
- Repeat their names over and over again
- Wordplay on how you met the like Jesy from New Jersey
- Speak up if you missed his or her names and ask them again
- Spell it out
- Make connections
- Choose to care
1)"If you aspire to be a good conversationalist, be an attentive listener."
2)"Remember that the man you are talking to is a hundred times more interested in himself and his wants and his problems than he is in you and your problems."
Quote:"The single most important key to success is to be a good listener." Kelly Wearstler
Reflection: In my opinion being a good listener is always a good thing because you get to know the person you are talking to you have to get to know them better. You have to understand their point of view by listening and encouraging them to talk about themselves. Also encouraging them and boost them to talk to express themselves if they're shy let them open up to you listen to them and afterwards they also will listen to you.
Five tips for active listening:
Rule 5: Talk in terms of the other man's interest.
1.)"The royal road to a man's heart is to talk about the things he treasures the most."
Quote:"The superior man makes the difficulty to be overcome by his first interest, success comes later." Confucius
Reflection; Talking to people who want to tell you what they're interested or what hey truly adore in their that make them want tell you why they have an interest on the thing they love.
Rule 6: Make the other person feel important-and do it sincerely.
1.)"The desire to be important is the deepest urge in human nature."(John Dewey)"Helping people feel important and appreciated works magic."
Quote:"Family is not an important thing. It's everything." Michael J. Fox
Reflection: Making people feel important is always a good because you show that you truly care about the other person just by making them feel wanted.
Reflection: What I feel about the "Six Ways to Make People Like You" is these six ways can help maintain a healthy relationship with friends,family, and with boyfriends/girlfriends. The six ways can show people how you talk to people and how you keep a stable relationship with people, people value the way you are because you're showing an interest to them and the topic you both are discussing. It's always important to listen to them and show much you care they will return the favor when its your turn to speak. You need to show respect and listen to get respect back and for someone to listen to you as well.
Five tips for active listening:
- Stay focus, keep natural eye contact and be patient
- Really listen, don't think about similar experiences.
- Allow periods of silence, wait till the other person speaks again
- Repeat the others words or paraphrase it back to them, it will reassure them that you are listening
- Understand the emotions of the words, when you paraphrase also try to express the emotion
Rule 5: Talk in terms of the other man's interest.1.)"The royal road to a man's heart is to talk about the things he treasures the most."
Quote:"The superior man makes the difficulty to be overcome by his first interest, success comes later." Confucius
Reflection; Talking to people who want to tell you what they're interested or what hey truly adore in their that make them want tell you why they have an interest on the thing they love.
Rule 6: Make the other person feel important-and do it sincerely.1.)"The desire to be important is the deepest urge in human nature."(John Dewey)"Helping people feel important and appreciated works magic."
Quote:"Family is not an important thing. It's everything." Michael J. Fox
Reflection: Making people feel important is always a good because you show that you truly care about the other person just by making them feel wanted.
Reflection: What I feel about the "Six Ways to Make People Like You" is these six ways can help maintain a healthy relationship with friends,family, and with boyfriends/girlfriends. The six ways can show people how you talk to people and how you keep a stable relationship with people, people value the way you are because you're showing an interest to them and the topic you both are discussing. It's always important to listen to them and show much you care they will return the favor when its your turn to speak. You need to show respect and listen to get respect back and for someone to listen to you as well.
