Friday, January 22, 2016

The Seven Habits

The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People 

Habit 1: Be Proactive
Habit 2: Begin with the end in mind
Habit 3: Put First Things First
Habit 4: Think Win-Win
Habit 5: Seek First to Understand, then to be Understood
Habit 6: Synergize
Habit 7: Sharpen the Saw

Habit 1: Be Proactive
"Habit 1 is the key to unlocking all other habits and that's why it comes first. it says, "I am the captain of my life. I can choose my attitude. I'm responsible for my own happiness or unhappiness. I am in the driver's seat of my destiny,not just a passenger."





Habit 2: Being with the end in mind

"Control your own destiny or someone else will." (Jack Welch)





                                              Habit 3: Put First Things First
                                           "Organize ad execute around priorities."




Habit 4: Think Win-Win
"Think win-win or no deal."





Habit 5: Seek First to Understand, then to be Understood
"Diagnose before you prescribe."



Habit 6: Synergize 
"The whole is greater than the sum op its parts (1+1=3)







Habit 7: Sharpen the Saw
"Four Dimensions of Self-Renewal: Physical, Mental, Spiritual, Social/Emotional."







Reflection: What I think overall about The Seven Habits, I believe the seven habits can help people become a better person and think of life and how they act differently. 

Monday, January 11, 2016

Three Fundamental Techniques in Handling People
Technique 1: Don't criticize, condemn or complain.
"If you want to gather honey, don't kick over the beehive."
In my opinion by this technique is never judge or complain about things you don't wanna do. Do them without any complain it will help you in life. For example when i was asked to help LAPD I didn't complain because it can help me in the future if i need help or its an emergency i can call them up cause they know of how good of a person i am.

Technique 2: Give honest and sincere appreciation
"The big secret in dealing with people"
In my opinion being honest is a good thing because you are being straight forward on what you have say,even if it's hard to be honest you will have try. Also having appreciation towards people is also better because they want to know how you really feel about and if they are appreciated by you. This technique will help you in a lot in life, being rude and not being honest or appreciating other people won't get you no where in life.
Technique 3: Arouse in the other person eager want.
"He who can do this has the whole world with him. He who cannot,walks a lonely way."
In my opinion on arousing in the person is to be interested in what he/she wants. By making this technique happen you'll have to look and find what they like what they don't.
Final Reflection: I believe these techniques can help a person become more aware of they let there actions or response to someone else. It can teach you to handle someone without being rude just being straight forward to them.
School Break Day
During my Christmas/ Semester break i spent time with family mostly friends. With my family I stayed home taking care my nieces and nephews also watching Christmas movies and with my friends I went out with them stayed up at all night playing card games or out eating. I met my friends brother and mother, his brother was very nice also his mom.The movies i watched were The Nightmare Before Christmas, Home Alone, The Grinch, and Home Alone 2. I really didn't watch many movies i watched more shows like; Supernatural,Dexter,Baby Daddy,and Flashpoint. I didn't play or watched any sports during my vacation.My CTR experiences was helping LAPD in East Los Angeles give out presents to little kids on December 20th, it was so crowded that even channels 4 and 34 came to see the event. The only book I read was Tales of the City by Armistead Maupin I fell in love with the book because of my sister since she had to read it for her college essay.During vacation I didn't do homework be there wasn't homework that I knew of.That's all I did for my Semester break.